Getting back to the woman i loved?

i hooked up with a married woman. Initially it was purely about sex but eventually I fell for her. Ive gotten so mad because she thinks she's playing me and she wants that. I feel sorry now for her husband. I want her to fall for me and dump her eventually. I have no problem with woman liking me but this woman is presenting a bit of a challenge. I need ideas. I dont want her husbund to know though.