Pregnant - husband doesn't want it?

its your decision he cant force you to do anything you arent happy with, talk to him when is suitable for you forget his son if hes 21 hes an adult and should know better anyway. if he refuses to make time for you or listen to you then id personally reconsider if hes the man you should be with, a real husband would make time for his wife and support her with any decisions she makes especially ones as hard as abortion. but dont let him make youf eel pushed into it, youll only regret it if you have an abortion to keep the peace, do what youf eel is right he will have to accept it, its his child too and he cant just wish it away.